Now in beta — Los Angeles
You don't need
more matches.
You need realer ones.
A dating app for people who hate dating apps.
3 picks per day. Compatibility-first.
No doom scrolling.
✦ First 100 users get free access for life
95%
of users quit within 30 days
30–60
minutes per day swiping — not dating
$0
spent on actual match quality
You've matched with 200 people
and gone on 6 dates...
You've swiped until it feels like a chore.
Texted someone for weeks who was always "busy."
Gave your best first-date energy to the wrong person.
Realer is for people who are done with that.
No swiping or scrolling. No dopamine trap.
Just 3 people, chosen carefully, every evening at 7pm.
♥ Read
28 questions. Worth it.
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3 top picks. Every night.
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Designed for offline.
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Powered by AI
Not just an algorithm.
A brain that learns you.
4 AI models. 28 deep questions. A matching engine that gets smarter with every decision you make.
see how it works →
Built to protect your heart,
your time, and your wallet.
realer
hinge
bumble
tinder
Daily matches
Quality over quantity
3
Unlimited
Unlimited
Unlimited
Compatibility scoring
What actually matters
✓
✗
✗
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Dealbreaker filtering
Pre-filtered out
✓
✗
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Message limit
Meet IRL faster
12
∞
∞
∞
Swipe mechanics
The dopamine trap
None
Yes
Yes
Yes
Deep questionnaire
28 real questions
✓
Prompts
Prompts
✗
Time on app daily
Do the math
~10 min
30+ min
30+ min
45+ min
Cost
You already know
$9.99/mo
$$$$
$$$$
$$$$
FAQ
Only 3 picks a day?
Yes. Most people are exhausted because there's too much choice. Three intentional picks beats fifty random ones every time.
Why only 12 back-and-forths?
Because the goal is a date, not a penpal. 12 exchanges is plenty to know if you want to meet someone IRL. We built the limit to protect your time and energy.
What makes the compatibility score accurate?
28 questions covering the things that actually predict relationship success: kids, values, conflict style, lifestyle. Plus two AI models analyzing dealbreakers and vibe.
Can I see who liked me?
No. One-sided interest is invisible. Only mutual matches create a conversation. No ego boost mechanics, no "super likes."
How does the 7pm delivery work?
Every evening at the same time, your three potential matches show up. You review them at your pace. No pressure to respond immediately.
How much does realer cost?
Free for the first 100 beta users. After that, $9.99/mo. Refer a friend and you both get a free week.
How do I get early access?
Join the waitlist. We're letting people in on a rolling basis, starting in LA. First 100 users get free access for life.
ready for something realer?
✦ First 100 users get free access for life
